Hopes Too High

I get my hopes up too often. It's pitiful. In my mind I always have an event planned our just perfectly with no room for failure, but when failure strikes I'm heartbroken. I have no clue how to respond. If it doesn't work out to the T I'm upset, which is a horrible way to act. I cant always control everything, I can control very little actually. I need to leave room for a little bit of failure. If everything doesn't work out like I think it should then so what. I need to try to make the best of what I've got. I can't be a perfectionist. I need to enjoy somethings too. I will never be able to control all of the aspects in my life. I need to give it all over to God and trust in him for everything that happens in my life.